Swinging Etiquette, everything you want to know about swinging if you want to be a swinger. Before attending a swinger party a couple must learn some etiquette and basic rules first, what to do and not do if you are a swinger at a club or event.
•Keep your partner’s comfort
and security in mind at all time.
•Don’t
rush: Don’t do something just because everyone
else around you is doing it. This is a lifestyle
and you have your whole life to enjoy it! One
step at a time.
•Set limits and Stick to
it
•Wear something sexy: this is
especially important for us women to feel sexy.
It boost our confidence and help us be more
aggressive
•Be polite and considerate:
even when rejecting someone, do it respectfully.
•Have a drink and mingle: try talking to
people. Not necessarily people you would be
interested in but even those you are not.
•Ask questions…
•Censor your
images so if you are naked, your face is not
showing or if your face is showing then make
sure it’s a g-rated pic.*(see comment below).
•Read other people’s profile: don’t just
look at the picture and rush to answer. Make
sure you are compatible… this will save you time
and translate to less rejections.
•Make
sure you are clean.
•Always wear
Condoms!
•Be honest and describe
yourself objectively.
Now the
DONTs
•Don’t do anything you and/or
your mate are not comfortable with “just to fit
in”
•If it does not feel right don’t do
it.
•Be afraid of rejection and let that
be a barrier from approaching others.
•Don’t be too aggressive or
overpowering.
•Do it without condoms.
•Don’t get drunk, loud or pushy.
•Smoke around people who don’t.
•Don’t lie about yourself, your looks or
your status.
•Post naked pictures with
your face showing.
•No means no. Respect
their boundaries and they will respect yours.
